Hello babymed and everyone else who is reading this! This is my first blog, so I'm going to start out with how it all began, ok!?!?!  Well, I was in high school when I first met my husband.... I was 16 yrs old at the time, and I went with a group of friends to a well known hispanic festival that is held every year in Miami, FL called Calle 8! My husband happened to be in the group of friends that i was with that day and from the moment we met we hit it off.... We had great chemistry, the attraction was there, and we always had something to talk about. From that day we kept in touch and began dating about a month and a half after that.... About four months into the relationship he decided to join the army and asked for my hand in marriage, and within two weeks we we're married! It was one of the happiest days of my life! I'll never forget it! Soon after he left for BMT(basic military trainning) and i was left at home to finish my studies. During that time that he was in trainning ( a total of about 7 months) we decided that once he finished his bmt we start trying for a family... Unfortunatly my husband was discharged for medical reasons. Once we were reunited we still wanted to try for a family, and so we did. Even with all the critisism that we got from family and friends we knew in our hearts that we wanted a family with eachother. But nothing ever happened. We attended college together, got jobs, and our own place, and about 2 years passed and still nothing. By this time I am eighteen and we decied to give it a break. The stress of trying for a family and being disappointed every month with a  negative result on a pregnancy test was putting a strain on our marraige. And so we decided to let nature take its course, and life went on. In august 2010 I went to the air force... It was a dream of mine since about 11th grade to do so. I was in trainning for about a month when I was sent to med. hold for severe ibs and possible chrons disease. And soon after was sent home and discharged for medical reasons. It was a sad time for me because i really enjoyed being in the military but my body just didn't handle the stress of it all as well as I hoped. About a month after being back I was in a car accident that totalled my car but Thank GOD i walked out if it with just a broken ankle! It showed me how truely precious life is, and you have to enjoy it every minute of it! But to get back on track, a few months passed and by my surprise the gift of life time was growing within my whomb! It had finally happened, it was the most happiest moment of my life! I remember the look on my husbands face when I told him that we we're going to be parents! It was a look of surprise, joy, fear, excitment, worry, confusion and happiness! (exactly what I was expecting! =] ) We were so excited and went to the doctor the next day! She told me I was about 5 weeks and 4days into the pregnancy... We left the obgyn with smiles running from ear to ear! But soon after on January 2oth I began to have cripling abdominal pains.... I went to the hospital and it truely amazed me how insensitive the urses and doctors were.... Your having a miscarriage, its a failed pregnancy! But then they did the ultrasound and said that everything look fine..... The day after I was feeling better no pains.... But then on the 22nd I began to bleed heavily and cramping once more.... I returned to the hospital and it was the same thing... Insensative doctors and nurses saying i was having a miscarriage, but then in the ultrasound the embryo was larger and the doctor said everything looked ok.... I went to my obgyn on monday the 23rd and she did an internal exam and tols me that i was dilated and having a miscarriage.... she sympathized with me and gave me 2 options as to what to do. I could go with one of two ways, let my body abort the child naturally(which could take days-weeks), or I could have a d&c which would help me cope because the bleeding would stop quicker and I'd be able to start the grieving processs sooner.... So I went with the d&c and rested for a few days and went back to my normal life....And here I am still in the grieving process....