Trying to conceive (TTC) does not have to always be a game of fertility calendars and conception calculators. Sometimes, in the heat of trying so hard, all you have to do is let romance happen and there is no better time than Valentine’s Day to spark a little romance in your relationship. The lights are turned down low and candles are softly illuminating the exquisite dinner you have prepared. The only thing missing is the music. Choosing the right music can turn a boring candlelit dinner into a night of romance and baby-making sex.

Choosing the Right Songs

The best rule of thumb when choosing sexy songs to bring magic back into your sex life is to stay away from cliché songs overplayed in Hollywood as baby-making music. While Marvin Gaye’s “Let’s Get it On” is a sultry song with all the right words, it tends to be used as the pun of jokes in Hollywood comedies. Move outside of your comfort zone and create a playlist using newer romantic songs that speak from the heart without evoking thoughts of the latest Hangover movie.

Maxwell is considered one of the sexiest songwriters in history. Fan favorites for sexiest song include:

  • “Whenever, Wherever, Whatever”
  • “Submerge: Until We Become the Sun”
  • “Til the Cops Come Knockin’”
  • “Pretty Wings”
  • “This Woman’s Work”

Robin Thicke is not as well-known as Maxwell, but he has something to say when it comes to romance. “Lost Without You” is one of the most romantic, light-hearted songs you could include in your baby-making playlist. Other songs to consider include:

  • Floetry – “Say Yes”
  • India Arie – “Ready for Love”
  • Usher – “Can You Handle It”
  • Beyonce – “Speechless”
  • Marques Houston –“Naked”
  • D’Angelo – “How Does it Feel”
  • Musiq Soulchild – “So Beautiful”
  • Chris Isaak – “Wicked Game”
  • Lana Del Ray – “National Anthem”
  • Ne-Yo – “Closer”
  • Lana Del Ray – “Video Games”
  • Taking it Back to the Classics

If you want to add a few classic baby-making songs to your playlist, you can always try the old favorites Barry White, Luther Vandross or Brian McKnight.

Having Trouble Picking Just the Right Songs?

If you need a little more help finding just the right songs head out to your local music store or online music store for a collection of slow jams. Slow jams combine soulful voices with slow, sexy music sure to turn any mood from lackluster to sexy with just a few verses.